Should you inform the school system when your child is diagnosed?
While this is a personal decision, it is a good idea to inform the school of your child's diagnosis. If personnel at the school don't know what is going on with your child, they will not be able to help. If your child needs special accommodations in school, the school will need to have some information. You can request a letter from your doctor that explains your child's diagnosis.
What accommodations is my child entitled to under law concerning school?
Children with "special health care needs" that are chronic in nature are entitled to special accommodations from their school district (this agreement between the family and the school is called a Section 504 plan, or Chapter 15 service agreement). If you think your child needs extra support or accommodations, call your school principal. Some school districts will ask that you write a letter to the principal explaining what your child needs. Visit the Education Law Center's publications page and scroll down to "Fact Sheets" to find sample letters to request a 504 plan, sample 504 plans, and more information.
How do I assure my child's needs are met in school?
Talk with school personnel and let them know what is going on. Some schools will be cooperative and make accommodations as needed. It's always helpful to set up a 504 plan with the school. Read more about 504 plans here. If your child needs special education, he or she may be eligible for an IEP, or individualized education plan. Read more about IEP's at the Education Law Center's publications page.
From whom do we get an excuse if our child cannot participate in gym or misses school due to being in the hospital?
If your child is admitted to the hospital, notify the school. Before discharge, make sure to ask your child's nurse for a school excuse. As the child's doctor if your child has any restrictions when he or she returns to school. If so, ask the doctor to provide a letter outlining these restrictions. If your child has NOT be admitted to the hospital, but is missing gym or school days, call your doctor's office and ask to speak with the nurse. Let the nurse know how your child is feeling and why he or she is missing school or gym. After the nurse discusses this with your child's doctor, they can provide a letter to you that you can provide to the school. If you would like the letter sent directly to the school, you must fill out and sign a "Release of Protected Health Information". Mail or fax this release to the doctor's office. Please call the office if you have questions about filling out this form.
My son/daughter has RND (reflex neurovascular dystrophy) and is entering college in the fall. How do we prepare for this step?
Help your child become more independent with his/her care. If your child has been through a therapy program, he or she should know what to do in terms of exercise and what to do in case of a flare. You should not need to remind your child to practice his or her own exercises or remain active. Have your child call to make sure his or her own appointments, and allow him or her to see the physician alone, at least for part of the visit. If your child is seeing a counselor, they should discuss this transition. The counselor may be able to help find a counselor near the school so your child can continue with counseling. When looking at school, look for offered activities and ways to stay active.
Who do we contact at the school he/she will be attending?
Contact the school's disabilities counselor, who most likely will need a letter stating your child's diagnosis and any special accommodations he or she may need. The counselor also can notify professors for missed exams or classes due to doctor's appointments or medical issues.
Are there ways to make this transition easier for my child?
The transition from high school to college is hard for any child. Encourage your child's independence but remain supportive. Talk with friend who have had children go off to college — sometimes this transition is herder on the parents than it is on the child!